builder: refactor clang include headers

Set -resource-dir in a central place instead of passing the header path
around everywhere and adding it using the `-I` flag. I believe this is
closer to how Clang is intended to be used.

This change was inspired by my attempt to add a Nix flake file to
TinyGo.

cgo/cgo_test.go

@@ -55,7 +55,7 @@ func TestCGo(t *testing.T) {
 			}
 
 			// Process the AST with CGo.
-			cgoAST, _, _, _, _, cgoErrors := Process([]*ast.File{f}, "testdata", "main", fset, cflags, "")
+			cgoAST, _, _, _, _, cgoErrors := Process([]*ast.File{f}, "testdata", "main", fset, cflags)
 
 			// Check the AST for type errors.
 			var typecheckErrors []error