* reduce heap allocations in tcp logging; omit use of AppendFloat which allocates a metric sh*tton
* debugheaplog: better heap statistic logging
* heap: use string for pcap.Frame.Protocol
* add potential to eliminate Flags.String heap alloc, remove incorrect HEAP comments
* add StackAsync.DebugErr and httpraw.SetBytes
* many heap alloc reductions and replacement of bytes.Equal with internal.BytesEqual
* begin reviewing TCP listener
* begin adding listener tests
* adding TestExchange implementation
* split out legacy and Step tests
* move listener to tcp package
* fix up tcp tests taking very long
* add xnet.TCPPool and work on TCPPool semantics
* xnet: TCPPool only accepts established connections
* xnet: getting to bottom of panic in xnet.Listener
* xnet: improve listener tests
* fix several data races in testing fixtures
* fix more synchronization things in listener test
* finalize tcplistener test