* begin reviewing TCP listener
* begin adding listener tests
* adding TestExchange implementation
* split out legacy and Step tests
* move listener to tcp package
* fix up tcp tests taking very long
* add xnet.TCPPool and work on TCPPool semantics
* xnet: TCPPool only accepts established connections
* xnet: getting to bottom of panic in xnet.Listener
* xnet: improve listener tests
* fix several data races in testing fixtures
* fix more synchronization things in listener test
* finalize tcplistener test
Pat Whittingslow