chore(deps): dedupe vite and esbuild across the monorepo

vitest 4.0.17 declared `vite: ^6 || ^7`, so it pulled a second vite@7.3.1
into the install alongside the vite@8.0.1 the client builds with, meaning
tests transformed through a different vite than the build. vitest 4.1
widened the range to include ^8, collapsing both to a single vite@8.2.1.

Likewise the tree carried three esbuild copies (0.24.2 from the server,
0.25.5 via tsx, 0.27.4 via vite). vite 8 takes esbuild as a peer and
tsx 4.23 deps ~0.28, so aligning the server on ^0.28 leaves one copy.

Also pin @types/node to the catalog in the client and utils workspaces.
Neither declared it, so transitive @types/* packages resolved it to
25.4.0 and the client was type-checked against Node 25 typings while the
app ships on Node 22 (engines.node ~22).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01NWs1vf42msmoJ21ABvQMpm

apps/server/package.json

@@ -31,11 +31,11 @@
     "@types/multer": "2.1.0",
     "@types/node": "catalog:",
     "@types/ws": "^8.5.10",
-    "esbuild": "^0.24.0",
+    "esbuild": "^0.28.0",
     "ontime-types": "workspace:*",
     "server-timing": "^3.3.3",
     "ts-essentials": "catalog:",
-    "tsx": "^4.19.2",
+    "tsx": "^4.23.12",
     "typescript": "catalog:",
     "vitest": "catalog:"
   },